Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco: From Privacy to Public Engagement
A Relationship Built on Caution
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco have recently solidified their relationship with an engagement, which took place in December after a year of dating. However, their journey to this point has been characterized by a desire for privacy. Gomez, known for being protective of her personal life, initially kept her budding romance with Blanco relatively under wraps.
Challenges of Fame in Love
In a joint interview with Rolling Stone published on March 17, Benny Blanco discussed the complexities of dating one of the most prominent figures in the entertainment industry. He candidly admitted that the pressure and attention that accompanied dating Gomez were significant. “I definitely tried to keep it private for a while, because it’s a lot,” Blanco revealed, emphasizing their initial hesitations about the relationship’s trajectory.
Navigating Early Uncertainties
Blanco elaborated on a pivotal conversation they had early in their relationship, reflecting on whether they should continue dating or part ways. “We just had to make sure, because she’s as big as it gets and it’s a big undertaking,” he explained. The couple’s desire to keep their relationship under wraps made dating more challenging, as Blanco noted, “I don’t want to just have dinner inside with you… and then we have to go hide in a car.”
Openly Celebrating Their Love
As their relationship progressed, both Gomez and Blanco became increasingly comfortable sharing aspects of their lives together publicly. They now openly post about their outings, including Taco Bell picnics and special Valentine’s Day celebrations. Blanco mentioned that while their wedding planning is going at a measured pace, he recognizes that Gomez is the one he is meant to be with.
Looking Ahead with Confidence
Reflecting on his feelings, Blanco shared, “I was so sure that I was gonna marry her. I just knew.” He expressed a sense of timelessness in their engagement, saying, “It feels like we got engaged yesterday, but also feels like we got engaged 20 years ago.” He lamented that they didn’t start dating sooner but acknowledged that their relationship’s timing has been part of its perfection.
