Podcast Appearance

In a recent episode of The Diary of a CEO, released on May 1, former First Lady Michelle Obama, alongside her brother Craig Robinson, shared personal anecdotes from her childhood and her relationship with Barack Obama. During this candid discussion with host Steven Bartlett, Michelle reflected on how her initial impressions of Barack diverged from her eventual romantic feelings.

First Encounter

Michelle recounted her first meeting with Barack at the Sidley & Austin law firm in Chicago, where she served as his mentor. She described him as the “ultimate swerve,” someone who did not match the criteria she typically sought in a partner.

“At the same time, I met Barack Obama—he showed up in my life as the opposite of a box checker,” she explained, noting his unconventional approach to life.

Initial Impressions

Reflecting on their first interaction, Michelle recalled that Barack arrived late, which initially annoyed her. However, she quickly found him more attractive than his photographs and felt an immediate connection, stating, “We clicked right off the bat.”

Romantic Development

Despite their connection, Michelle initially tried to set up Barack with her friends, believing it would be inappropriate for two Black associates at the law firm to date. As she recalled, “That’s expected, right? And I was into doing what wasn’t expected.”

The dynamic shifted when Barack asked her out, emphasizing, “Who cares what it looks like?” Their first date included visits to an art institute, a walk along Michigan Avenue, dinner with a scenic view, and watching Spike Lee’s Do the Right Thing.

Lessons from Their Relationship

Throughout their marriage, Michelle acknowledged that challenges existed. She highlighted that people often give up too quickly, saying, “There is so much friction built into the equation.” Mentioning social media portrayals of their relationship, she stated:

“People give up too quickly on marriage. I see people quitting because they look at me and Barack and go #couplegoals, and I’m like, ‘It’s hard.’”

Commitment to Each Other

Michelle emphasized the resilience in their partnership, stating that neither she nor Barack have ever considered quitting their marriage, reinforcing their commitment to problem-solving together. She remarked on Barack’s presidential candidacy in 2008, expressing her confidence in his capabilities:

“I knew he had it in him to make this happen.”

Final Thoughts on Their Journey

Addressing the rumors surrounding their marriage, Michelle stated plainly that any significant issues would be apparent, asserting, “If I were having problems with my husband, everybody would know it.” She concluded by highlighting the importance of their bond and how it continues to influence both their personal and professional lives.